The G/H relationship won't become the story. Harry being Harry will remain the story. It's like, in 20 years when I'm rich and famous, and someone writs my biography, they won't focus on that relationship I had when I was 21. That's sort of what this is.

You won't please everyone, but then, you're not supposed to.
But I still want to. When I get told I'm doing it wrong, I get all twitchy. and defenseive. And slightly over-reactive. But hey.