Have you watched any of the extras on the GoF DVD? There's an interview with Ralph Fiennes, and he's talking about the graveyard scene, and he really brings it all into perspective by saying that here's an adult who's torturing a defenseless little boy, and that's really not a children's story at all.

Hearing him say that, in his suave quiet Ralph Fiennes voice, sent shivers up my spine, because he's very, very right.